Wednesday, 15 April 2015

How to be a Sweetheart

The first step to being a sweetheart is to be a human. Only humans have hearts. Only humans can express themselves. Only humans can have heart attacks. Oops! I actually don't think animals have hearts. Or do they?

How to be a Sweetheart


A sweetheart is simply a heart that is sweet. Lol. Yeah. Like I said here, you are your heart. The heart is the true reflection of a person.

To be a sweetheart is being sweet to everyone you meet along your life's journey. Your interaction and relationship with people defines how sweet you are.

To be a sweetheart requires you to be a positive, polite person for the most part and to be able to willingly expend yourself in helping others.

Being a sweetheart means you're genuine and nice. I get an awesome feeling when someone calls me "sweetheart" and when someone goes "Aw! you're such a sweetheart!" I must say, it is indeed a beautiful thing to be one.

Doing the following can make you a sweetheart:

  • Always wear a smile
  • Help people
  • Respect people
  • Decide to be happy
  • Be selfless
  • Be nice and friendly
  • Give compliments
  • Maintain a positive attitude
  • Communicate freely
  • Laugh when you can
  • Be patient
  • Listen more than you speak
  • Speak calmly
  • Remember special days (birthdays, anniversaries, etc)

Feel free to add to the list.

Sometimes you can't even learn to be a sweetheart. . . it just comes naturally as a trait you've been born with. (especially to those who are genuinely born again)

"The heartfelt counsel of a friend is as sweet as perfume and incense." Prov. 27:9 (NLT)

OK, I can't exactly remember where it was stated that bloggers should have a special name for their visitors. But I kinda like the idea.

So I've decided to address you (for coming on Heart Rays) as my SWEETHEART. I hope you like your new name? *smiles*

Hello Sweetheart!

Written by: Nwamaka Ajaegbu 
Follow on Twitter: @Amakamedia 
Email: amakamedia@gmail.com



Heart Rays. . .giving out the light.

31 comments:

lindaspears said...

I'm blushing........Thanks sweetheart!

Adebayo Adegbite said...

Hi Sweetheart! hahahaha......you just have your style of blogging. Nice one nne. I like am for my new name wella. I think animals don't have a heart too.

Amole John said...

Great article Amaka. I accept sweetheart as imposed on me in this sweet manner. Lol..You have said it all. Let me add this; TREAT EVERYONE FAIRLY.don''t play favoritism,.tribalism and racism.

Sarah Queen said...

Beautiful one. To add to the list --- admit and apologize when you are wrong--- Loving this blog. Now I am a sweetheart. #dancing#

Alice said...

A sweetheart is someone you value in some way, and someone you want to be nice to. I like the name too.

Hi sweetheart!

Dele said...

Everywhere is going to flooded with sweetheartssssss before we know it now....... hehehehehe....all thanks to Amaka Media..... I want to be a sweetheart too

Anonymous said...

Awwwwwww you're such a sweatheart. lool

Amakamedia said...

You get that feeling too. Shey? *smiles*

Amakamedia said...

Thanks Sweetheart. Lol! I think animals have brain sha

Amakamedia said...

Do you have a choice? *rolling my eyes* Lol.

Thanks for adding that to the list Sweetheart. We are all equal.

Amakamedia said...

Hahaha. . . you've always been a sweetheart Sarah :)

Amakamedia said...

*winks* Absolutely!

Amakamedia said...

Haaa sweets. . . I didn't see it that way ooo. Erm. . . Can we shorten it to "SW"? lol

Amakamedia said...

I dunno know who you are but being on Heart Rays automatically says you are one!

CatwalkwithPat said...

That means I have always been a sweetheart.

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E Rella said...

It's been long someone called me sweetheart ooh. Me love this new name!


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A. said...

Wonderful post, love your writing!

Tomi 'Molola said...

Yayyyy I'm a sweetheart. But really I find it hard doing some of the things you listed (like speaking calmly when I'm upset. It's either I speak unkindly or I keep mute). will definitely work harder at that. God help me. Hi Amaka :*

Amakamedia said...

You've always been sweet, Mo. We need to take it one step at a time. Weighing our words and actions keep our sweetness in check. <3

Amakamedia said...

Thanks sweetie!

Amakamedia said...

Awww. . . Rella is a sweetheart eeya eeya oo. Lol. I'm glad you like!

Amakamedia said...

That's for sure! Oh Pat, you're one of the sweetest hearts I've found on the blogosphere. You rock girl!

lifeitudes said...

I used to be such a sweetheart. I need to get back to my old self

Amakamedia said...

please do. Lol. We've missed you sweets! :)

munchyberry said...

".....someone you want to be nice to"?? Do you choose who you want to be nice to? How about being nice to everyone?

munchyberry said...

Lovely write up I must say

Amole John said...

Well, that would be the ideal thing for everyone, but unfortunately there are a lot of insensitive people in the world. We really can't be nice to everyone but we can try.

Erniesha Tibs said...

Awwww...Hiya sweetheart!...hehe....You know, I know someone who used to be a sweetheart until life happened...I mean, she was amazing until BAM! Life struck and today, Phew!!!

CatwalkwithPat said...

Awww, thanks dearie

bolateethole.blogspot.com said...

I don't have all, the attributes you listed here, I fink I will work more on myself. *Smiles*

Highly Favored said...

Great list! Always wear a smile and listen more, and patience are attributes I can work on improving. Thanks for stopping by my blog!!

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