Tuesday, 9 December 2014

Would You Cry if You Saw Her Crying?

So I got to ask my reputable followers on Twitter this simple question and I couldn't get any loving, beautiful and romantic answer. Whatever happened to the romantic men? Or perhaps, romance no longer exists? Choi!

This question is for the guys, you get back from work and you find her crying. It doesn't matter what had happened. You just saw her crying. What would you do?

Ok, here are few answers I got:

  •  "How would crying solve whatever problem?"
    •  Many outright 'No's
    • "I would pass a bowl"
As in, like seriously? It's not funny o

I chose not to ask whether men are romantic or not because it is a common question. "Would you cry if you saw her crying?" is an indirect way of puting it out. I don't want to give a conclusion yet. *lips sealed*

Ladies, you might want to teach the guys how to be romantic. What would you like him to do if he saw you crying?

Let's share!

Posted by Nwamaka Ajaegbu 
Twitter: @Amakamedia
Email: heartrayswithamakamedia@yahoo.com

12 comments:

KayCee Blunt said...

Most Nigerian men weren't taught to be romantic from childhood.

Samuel Ogundipo said...

If you and your man have been together for any length of time you know that he’s not a mind reader. He can’t even anticipate what you’d like for dinner, let alone know when you need or want him to be romantic. If you get angry with him because you expected him to be romantic and he wasn’t, you’ll be setting yourself up for an argument. Without the proper guidance from you, he won’t know what your expectations are.

Amakamedia said...

What are you trying to say? @KayCeeBlunt

Amakamedia said...

OK, thanks Samuel. But that doesn't answer the question. What would you do if you saw her crying? Let's assume she's got no expectation at that moment.

concept said...

I will even slap you. Why you go dey cry? romantic ko ronance ni!

Bukola A said...

when you find me crying, just hold me. Don't say a word. Hold me so close and let your love surround me.

KayCee Blunt said...

I'm saying we are trying to be romantic. It is not in our culture to be romantic. Besides, a woman's definition of "romantic" is way dfrnt from d man. For instance, flowers n chocolate will make a woman say "oh! he's so romantic!" We don't think like dat.

Amakamedia said...

So you're saying, it is not natural for a Nigerian guy to be romantic. Huh? I actually do know some romantic guys. I only needed to know what you'd do if you'd seen her crying. Is that so hard to answer? Kaycee, you're dodging this question with style o. lol

Amakamedia said...

Thanks Bukky. Nothing says it quite like a hug!

Amakamedia said...

"slap"? Just so you know, the "her" in this question refers to a lady. smh...

UCC said...

If Am the one,I'll get close to her - cuddle her and place her head on my shoulder, dry her tears,ask her why she's crying n then console her

UCC said...

If Am the one,I'll get close to her - cuddle her and place her head on my shoulder, dry her tears,ask her why she's crying n then console her

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